This
sunny Sabbath afternoon we rode up Emigration Canyon with our biking brother
Kim. As we have done some many times before on our bikes, we summited
Little Mountain together, but this time our means of conveyance was four
wheeled. There were several poignant moments. One was Kim’s simple
refutation “that’s a lie” to something the Big Man said. Then, as we
traveled towards the last bend before the summit, there was golden glint of the
late afternoon sunlight reflected from Kim’s smile as he gazed upon the Salt
Lake Valley--where many of his
fond memories of meaningful events in his life were made. A photo op at that top of Little Mountain that the boys planned was
nearly thwarted because Hale forgot his smart phone. It does not matter
how smart the electronic device is if the operator is challenged. But
alas, Big Man, in his inimitable and gregarious way, imposed upon a young buck
who just summited the mountain with his biking brothers and asked him if he
would spare a moment to memorialize on his phone camera a picture of brothers
who once summited that mountain together on their bikes when they were younger
and stronger. We shall never forget the respectful manner in which the
young man took the picture, recognizing the dire circumstances of a veteran
biker. Without hesitation, he took the picture and sent it to us, a token
of charity towards complete strangers that will forever be remembered as we
gaze upon the image that he made. On the way home Kim became
anxious. To comfort him, we told him that Vicki was waiting for him at
home. Though his memory was clouded by medication, causing his mind to
wander hither and yon from time to time, with a surety in his voice that can
only be forged from a lifetime of love and commitment, he declared: “I know she
is”. Not much was said during the journey, but much was felt as many
tears were shed traveling to the summit and back, listening to Cat Stevens,
James Taylor, Seals and Croft and John Denver. Before returning, a stop
was made at the fire station so that Wood could fetch tissue to hide evidence
of a tender moment shared together. Vicki, thank you for sharing him with
us.
Alfred Lord Tennyson
wrote in the summation of the longing for adventure Ulysses surely must have
felt while living a sedentary life on the Isle of Ithaca, after a lifetime of
perilous adventures:
Though much is taken, much abides; and
though
We are not now that strength which in old
days
Moved earth and heaven; that which we are,
we are;
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in
will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.
May we all strive, seek and find all life has to offer and never yield to all
the curves balls life throws at us.
WE LOVE YOU KIM!
Thank you for sharing this moment. Wonderful friends, wonderful men - I'm proud to know you and I too have many happy memories shared with Kim - one of the best men I know.
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